"I can't believe I was nearly ready to attempt this decision alone. I felt so much pressure to get it right and also keep meeting the external expectations of my mentors. But I was torn. Ruth helped me weigh up and evaluate the risk involved in my various options and help me really appreciate what it is that is most important to me going forward and long term. I'm in a field where some sacrifice is part of any choice but I want that to pay off in a way that I care about. Now I'm clear on what speciality I will pursue. My mind is finally calm!"